Updated on 30 September 2024
A Sacred Journey with your Lover into Yoni Massage
Yoni is the innermost physical expression of the sacred feminine. Yoni is the portal between the Source and our physical world. Spirits descend on earth through sexuality. Most of the world is birthed through the yoni. In various traditions and lineages around the globe, the sacred feminine is thus revered in art, literature, dance, spirituality, and communal practices. It also inspires and is celebrated in rituals, mythologies, mysticism, and symbolism. Tantra is one of these traditions.
A Tantric Yoni massage is thus not just a vaginal massage. No matter if you are trying to give or receive this massage, the first thing you need to do is to set a clear intention to honor the sacredness of the feminine energies expressed in the body in the form of yoni.
This guide to tantric yoni massage is meant to support lovers to deepen their connections in intimacy. It educates lovers not only about giving but also about receiving.
Part of this yoni massage guide delves into the more details in the yoni massage process. It is built upon a tantric full-body massage. So, if you have not yet read Tantric Massage - Intimate Guide on Tantric massage, do that. It is the foundation you need before attempting a yoni massage. Also, make sure you check out the Advanced Guide on Tantric Massage beforehand.
Unlocking the secrets of Yoni Massage
Pelvis and Pubis Massage
Approach slowly all the pathway through the inner thighs, but also including the outer thighs and the hips. Arrive gradually at the groins, gently edging into the pubis. Give attention to the whole area with gentle touches like light strokes, soft brushing, smooth flying over, or firmer touches like pressing, kneading, etc. Touch with tenderness and care. It will be deeply relaxing, nourishing, or perhaps arousing and exciting.
Sacred ceremony
Make sure to slow down; take every step with a breath. You are making connections to the divine feminine spirit incarnated in flesh. Cover the whole yoni in your hands. Both of you can close your eyes. Breath deeply together. Wake up your other senses together, yoni in hands, feeling the warmth of each other, as well as the contour of the touch and the texture. Take in the fragrance in the air.
Or you may open your eyes to contemplate the yoni like never before, in all her glory, her colors, shapes, the folds of the skin, etc. This is yoni gazing. You may be surprised, as if you were seeing it for the first time with new eyes. As a receiver, you bathe in the beaming light of the adoration of your lover. Notice your sensations and feelings; let yourself submerge in this ocean of love.
Vulva Massage
This is the external part of the yoni anatomy. It is like the grand portal to enter the sacred shrine. Warm up the whole area with tenderness. Start by softly massaging the fleshy outermost area. Edging in towards the labia majora. No rush. You may use one finger to match the increasing delicateness of the yoni, delighting her with light brushes, tapping, circling, or pressing, or nibbling with two fingers, etc. Arriving gradually at the even more delicate labia minora. You may use similar techniques. Just be sure to linger without hurry. Tease the clitoris with or without her hood. Explore the fossa at the lower tip. Find out what brings out the aliveness and juiciness of your lover.
Vaginal Massage
This is the internal part of the yoni anatomy. Now you are at the threshold to enter the innermost shrine. Ask for explicit permission whether she wants you to proceed to entering her sacred temple. Start with one finger, and check in before any extra finger can enter. With great gentleness, slide slowly around to explore all parts of the chamber. Start from the famous G-spot and gradually proceed to the anterior wall (abdominal side), posterior wall (sacral side), and the cervix. Use a lot of stillness. Or softly press, or move slowly. Explore different ways of touching, varying depths, speed, etc. Check in frequently to see how each touch and each spot feels for her. Move with her cadence in this dance. It is not necessarily about bringing a climax. Just lavishly shower your loving touch as your sacred offering to the divine feminine.
Closing Mudras (Gestures)
Cover the whole yoni with both hands. Or cover just the yoni with one hand while putting the other hand on either your heart or her heart. Close your eyes and connect to the warmth and the pulse of the yoni. Visualize your lover emanating beams of divine light and let your divine bow to the divine in her.
Dive even deeper
It is possible that you or your lover finds out a lot about the varying sensations in the different parts of the yoni. It is very common that some memories are stored in this very delicate and sacred part of the body, which may show up as spots of discomfort, numbness, tightness, etc. You may want to read further on Sexual Healing - Reviving Pleasure and Intimacy in Body, Mind and Soul.
Or maybe you simply want to just try connecting your innermost nature with yourself for any reason. In such cases, and if your intention is personal growth and healing for yourself, then you may want to find a professional yoni massage therapist to support you in your discovery and healing journey.
Conclusion
If you would like to experience tantric massage and yoni massage with professional care, or if you would like to have professional guidance on how to do it, contact me now.
Please do check out my other articles in this series:
To find out about the basic background of tantric massage and its potential benefits for you or your lover, you can read on Tantric Massage Therapy.
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